I disagree that it is more relaxing and less stressful to spend time alone. Some people may say that spending time alone make them more independent. However, I used to relieve stress by talking with my friends for a long time. Also the more people spend a lot of time by themselves, the more their character become egocentric.
First of all, I used to relieve stress by talking with my friends for a long time. Whenever I talked with friends, we dealt with our personal matters. Some of them listened carefully my problems and often provided some solutions. Also one among friends helped directly when I did college studies. Through the conversation, we became more and more knowing each other and could solve problems. No matter how listening from friends to solve problems I had problems, I relieved my stress by talking. For those reasons if I have free time, I prefer conversation with my friends.
Second, the more people spend a lot of time by themselves, the more their character become egocentric. Some people may mention that the men who spend a lot of time alone had less less stressful. However, the communication is essential to survive modern world. Also the more people spend a lot of time by themselves, the more their character become self-centered. Let me take my experience for example. When I was the last year of high school, I spent alone a lot of time studying for college admission. A few months later, my personality is more and more sensitive due to the stress which caused the college admission tests. In addition, I could not relieve the stress by studying alone. The stress made me more sensitive.
In conclusion, I disagree that it is more relaxing and less stressful to spend time alone. It is because I used to relieve stress by talking with my friends for a long time. Also the more people spend a lot of time by themselves, the more their character become self-centered.
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