In the world, there is a variety of people. Some people appreciate the diversity of the world while some do not when building up relationships. I personally prefer to associate with people who are similar to me. First, conflicts may not easily arise. Furthermore, it might be easy to build a deep relationship.
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The advantage of choosing friends who have similar personalities and attitudes is that people can readily find the common ground with their friends. Therefore, it is disputes are less likely that disputes happen. Furthermore, It might be more enjoyable and interesting to socialize with similar people since they find joy from the same matter. For example, If a slender person,who enjoys making fun of big people, has a chubby friend, when he verbally harssess big people, it is obvious that his chubby the his friend will get angry/will be offended. Therefore, their friendship may not endure for a long time or break apart. Additionally, the slender friend could get "mad" because he might think his friend is too "petty."
Furthermore, It might be easy to develop a deep relationship with a similar person because they might have similar issues. For example, a poor person might have difficulty in complaining his poverty to a rich friend because some poor people have an involuntary sense of inferiority towards wealthy people. Therefore, the poor person might not be able to discuss his problems to his friend and his stress could accumulate inside. The financial difference between friends can be a serious problem. Although it is rare, some poor people break their friendship with friends, who are affluent, on purpose. It seems impossible to form an enduring relationship with different people in this case.
Occasionally, it might be adventurous to get along with disparate people because people could experience a different "world." For example, if a home-person goes to a club because of his club-lover friend, he could find a new joy. However, I strongly believe ,in the long run, it is more beneficial and joyful to form relationships with similar people. |