Some people think that most experiences in our lives that seemed difficult can't give us valuable lessons. However, in my opinion, hard experiences could be positive things. First, they will help us overcome the obstacles which happened in the future. Second, they will make us mature mentally.
To begin with, the experiences we cannot deal with easily now would be guide for our future. If the experiences result from our mistakes, we will be careful not to repeat the same mistakes based on the former situation. Take my story as an example. When I was a high school student, I took an important exam that decided my university. At that time,I was so much nervous thaI I couldn't get a good mark, so I tried to study one more year in order to get higher mark. Next year, I got a good grade and then I could enter the university that I had desired.
On top of that, difficult situations in our life encourage us to be mature.It is ture that we feel painful and discourage when we face some problems and difficult situations, but after all , we will find improving ourselves thanks to the very experiences. For example, one of my friends whose parents were living in counrty side lived alone near her school in Seoul. She have to deal with everything by herself. It was very tough for her to cook and do laundry. There were no people to help her like parents. However, as times went by, she told me the situation helped her have a lot of independence.
For these reasons, I agree some experiences that seemed difficult will benefit us for the long run. They will provide us with many lessons. First of all, It can be a guildline that helps us not to repeat same mistakes. In addition, by learning from the experiences, we can realize many things and will be getting maturer and maturer. |