I agree that people who have diffrent interests and personalities cannot be friends. Some people may insist that if you have a true friend, you need not warry about friend`s interests and personalities. However, If I have a friend who could share my interests, We care each other when one of us needs to help. Also If my friend has common interests and personalities, We could spend more time on various activities together.
First of all, If I have a friend who could share my interests, We care each other when one of us needs to help. When I was in middle school, I got along with one of the my classmates. He showed enthusiasm on every subject and also did well every test. I was fascinated that. However, When I had a trouble my family problem, he helped me little. It was because he did not try to understand my personal matters. He only focused on rasing his test grades. I felt that interest between I and He was very diffrent. Thus, we felt distance each other.
Second, if my friend has common interests and personalities, We could spend more time on various activities together. When I was in high school, I have to chance to socialize with one of the my classmates. He was interested family problems and liked to talk with me about social problems. Naturally, We had a lof of talks on the decline of North Korea` system and congress system`s problems. The more we spent time together, The closer we felt close each other. Also These topics which we talked about are useful to prepare our college admission. We encouragred each other When we had a difficulty in famliy problems and tests for college admission.
In conclusion, I agree that people who have diffrent interests and personalities cannot be friends. It is because if I have a friend who could share my interests, We care each other when one of us needs to help. Next, if my friend has common interests and personalities, We could spend more time on various activities together.
|