the best way to learn about life is by listening to the advice of friends and family.
After the industilization, everything has been drastically changing. In order to survive today, people cannot help trying to learn as much as possible. Thus, it causes people to value school's education and getting high scores from the school. While learning and absorbing new knowledge, they easily believe that they can only learn what they need from school without notice. This would cause people to ignore family and friends who may give priceless advice. In addition, since people are getting busier, they must not have enough time to communicate with their friends and family. The less people meet their friends and family, the less they feel friendly with their family and friends.
As a society ask people to be more competitive, people only hope to learn what will help their future career. Thus, they prefer to go to a school and some priviate institutions and get used to believing that those places are only place where they will learn what they need. As a result, people are becoming smarter and more competitive as workers not humans. Since well-educated workers do not focus on developing their another psychological face, they are easily frustrated and do not have strong confidence on themselves. Hence, the rate of suicide is increasing since they feel themselves as robots to only work.
Why this happens to people even though they do not waste their time and they believe they work with without stopping? The first reason is that people do not have develop their inner minds. Teachers in schools and private instituions are people who get paid by students, so they do not think that they should care for their students for all the time even though some believe that teachers are supposed to do it. These teaceher's behaviors make them to teach their students only studies not why they should study and why they should study. Under this condition, the only people who can teach answers for those questions are friedns and family. Since people spend many time with family and friends and family live more than them. their friends and family can give a good advice about life or whatever question about life people will have. This will help them look over their past lives one more time and give them chance to self-criticize.
As everything is changing so fast and peole are seriouly competing each other, people easily igore to develop their inner minds. People are not born to only work, but to enjoy their lives. Money from working is just method to help people enjoy. People should not forget this looking basic but significant instruction and we have family and friends who can give invaluable advice and instruct us on our psycological mind. Therefore, I believe we should value learning from family and friends.