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As the concern over the way of raising
children increases, there has been a liveliest discussion as to how to promote
children's growing with compliments. The functions of good compliments which have
been uncovered are to promote their behavior and lead them to the way on which parents
want to lead them. There has been the discussion about whether
parents should give them regular praises. Some people think that parents should
not praise regularly and it would not be helpful. In my opinion, however,
regular compliments have lots of function for children to do their work better.
There are two specific reasons below.
To begin with, regular compliments develop
good behavior. Compliment has a power to motivate children's behavior and go
forward the destination. When they do good behavior and it is praised properly,
they can develop the work as a good way. For example, when I was seven years
old, I took a program where I should listen to a book via cassette tape,
memorize words, and the next morning teacher makes morning call to check the
assignments, which is for vocabulary developments. Every morning, it was time bothersome
at that time and awful to hold up the phone and remind the words I remembered.
However, my mom gave me some compliments regularly after hanging up for waking
up and doing the work. Thanks to mother's support, I could take the course for
six years. Also, it became my reading habit and ability and helpful for later
academic classes. Thus, praising regularly could promote for children to do
better. On top of that, it can develop the sense of
confidence. The meaning of compliments is one of agreements of the behavior.
When children struggle choosing their ways or have no idea what to do, a piece
of compliments by their parents could feel supporting and be confident on their
way. For instance, when I was eleven (아라비아 숫자 사용을 지양해주세요.) years old, I loved to play piano and wanted to
go to the field of music with the instrument. In my class, there were (시제 -> 과거 시제) some friends
who do better than me and got prizes more than me. I was depressed and jealous
and also it made me think pause of my way. However, my father always praised that
I am doing well and no matter the result is. Also only enjoying itself can make
more prestigious result, my father said. That made me feel confident and the
results were not my concern any more. This is why I can still love playing
piano and have skillful ability to congratulate my friend on some anniversary
with the piano.
To sum up, regular compliments by parents
have definitely good sight and need for their children's growing. This is because
it can motivate and develop (목적어 필요합니다) better doing and give sense of support and confidence.
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