▶ Your Answer : Some
people think that having just a few close friends is better than spending time
with many friends. However, in my opinion, it is better to spend time with many
friends than to have just a few close friends. There are two reasons. First,
friends will be a kind of asset. Namely people who have a lot of friends can
obtain many benefits from their friend. Second, if you possess only few
friends, you will be hard to experience many things.
To
begin with, people with running around with friends can take advantage of from
them as much as they have. The meaning of success has completely changed to the
past. If it was merely focusing on one’s own ability and excelling other, now
it is different. Along with your own ability, it is crucial to have people who
can lend you a hand when you are in problem. In my case, I just had a small
amount of peers in high school. But I could make new friend since Facebook was
launched. Later on, I hoped to research about eSports. However, I needed a
great deal of people for responding my survey. I could finish thanks for
Facebook friends. If I did not have friends, I would never have researched. It
is evident that spending time with many friends has many merits.
On top of that, in South Korea, there is a moral, “Experience through
people is real experience.” The meaning is that experience is oriented from
people. On the other hand, people who enjoy only with themselves or few friends
cannot undergo a lot of experiences. I believe that experience is one of the
essential factors of success in this world. Imagine people only have textbook
knowledge. Their view will be so narrow. By meeting diverse people and crushing
challenge raised by other people, they can not only gain various experience but
also broaden their horizon of the world. For example, my friend only studied
without friends except for me when she was high school. After graduating her
high school, he got a job. At first, she thought it will be so easy to her. It
was true, if it was focused on just tasks. However, it is impossible to work
with no one. She had in trouble dealing with people. Finally, she was
dismissed. Likewise in this case it is very important to accumulate skills
handling people by meeting and mix with friends. |