After the victory of capitalism over
communism, individualism and personal identity have been the single most
important component of the contemporary society. Education mainly focuses on
cultivating appropriate skills and knowledge to ensure personal thought while
media reinforces such values. Thanks to such efforts, the world today is
diversified enough where everybody has his or her own opinion on every matter,
usually based on personal background where he or she has been brought upon.
Similarly, the given topic today could be construed in a plethora of ways. I,
myself, as a part of the society, based on my knowledge and experience,
strongly agree with the idea for two reasons: Tendency to say the truth every
time is the most critical factor for keeping the relationship between people in
that the lie could bring the breakage of relationship and prevent the lier from
making the deep relationship.
First of all, the trust is the most
important factor to keep the relationship between people; If somebody lie, the
believe between people starts to break up, which makes them become distant each
other. This is because they could not fully symphasize and think more to decide
whether he or she is lying. For example, one of my friends, Young-Soo Kim was
once known as really attractive and capable man who has nice speculation who
had introduced us that he had graduated in top-teer university. His
characteristic helps him to make a lot of friends easily but his background
like university seemed to rarely impact on his friend-making process. However,
it was revealed that he did not graduate top university. Even though his
university was still nice, everybody starts to suspect him, thus, he has
gradually lost his friends. Had not he lied, he would not have lost many
friends since he is still nice man.
In addition, the people who sometimes lie
tend to make their relationship shallow because they need to think many times
on his lie, not focusing on the important topic during meeting. Thus, the
people could not show his or her complely opened mind, which blocks the lier
from getting closed to their friends. My friend, Young-soo Kim, as I mentioned,
have really nice characteristic. However, he always looks like speaking facial
topics, not deeper one like telling his friends his real problem, which makes
him make only the superficial relationship to his friends. In my opinion, the
reason why he lost many friends abruptly might be his swallow relationship with
his friends. This example manifestly shows that not perfectly saying truth could
impair the relationship by letting him or her tend to make superficial
relationship only.
Ultimately, there is no right or wrong.
However, the one thing that is definite is that with a robust claims and
apropos of evidence, anyone could acknowledge the validity of statement. Today,
I have produced a claim about today's topic and effectively bolstered it with
the two specific reasonings. I have thus effectively built a solid assertion
where not everyone would agree to, but definitely acknowledge.