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Some people often say "Boys be ambitious!" However, in my opinion, it is better to be realistic. There are two reasons. First, one can do the right thing for one's career after watching his real position. Second, it can be happier.
To begin with, people's life can be more successful. In this hyper - competetive society, having a successful life is like a comel passing through a head of the needle. Even getting a job is harder than ever. So just with having ambitious dream is not helpful. People have to realize their position, then they can do anything to upgrade their life.
There was a survey done by jobkorea which asked thousand people who work at business center "What is the most important to catch the crown for your job?" . Over seventy two percent of people chose being realistic and doing things step by step. This showed that it is crucial for people not only thinking about their rank but also doing the best you can.
On the top of that, it can be happier. If one has an ambitous dreams, one must struggle to achieve his goal. But if you regard your realistic position or dream, you do not have to give much efforts to something that is nor realistic. Moreover, it can be able to make you take a breath and happy.
To give an anecdote, I was struggled with ambitious goal about entering the medical university. But after fail, I became realistic, and I thought deeply.It was hard to enter any medical school because of my grade, so I changed my next goal which is entering the korea university, medical-science major. Had it not been for thinking about my real position, it would not have been possible to enter the Korea university.
To sum up, one is able to do the better things to reach the realistic goal after being realistic. Furthermore, one can be happier. For those reasons, I firmly believe that being realistic is better than having ambitious dream.