Q: Moving to a new city or country is not a good idea because you will lose your old friends.
Some people think that distance between him
and his friend is why they lose their friendship. However, I disagree with them
for two reasons concerning the fact that people can have a meet with his friend
even moving their home and main causes of losing friendship is not distance between
them.
To begin with, even they move out to another
city, they can still meet their friends. Lately, transportation and communication
technology is improved brilliantly. The physical remoteness is no more problem
these days. For instance, I had moved my home 2 years ago. Because of the move,
I had no choice but to be far away from my friend’s place. At first, I felt regret
that our distance became too long. However, due to the great public transportation
system and mobile communication net, we are able to have kept contact and have
a good friendship.
On top of that, losing friends is not because
of the interval between them. Relationship between friends usually becomes
worse due to money.
For example, there was a poll conducted by
the Friendship Research Center to determine with the twenties and thirties who
had had old friends as respondents. The purpose of the survey was to understand
the consensus view of what makes their relationship worse. The majority of
respondents ranked the money problem over physical distance between them. An
overwhelming 70 percent had responded that major conflictions occur because of
the money. They borrowed money from their friend and afterward did not return it.
Whether the amount of money is big or not, it definitely broke their intimacy. This
survey proves that people think that how far between old friend do not affect
their friendship.
In a nutshell, they can maintain their friendship even they move out far away and the distance does not statistically take up the main cause of break their relationship.
In this regard, I strongly believe that moving
to a new city does not affect their relationship.
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