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Some people might claim that strict rules are too intensive for
their young children because their criticized behaviors do not have any
deliberateness.
However, in my opinion , an appropriate
degree of punishment should be imposed on children concerning two reasons. First,
a fear about punishment can prevent wrong behaviors from happening again.
Second, clearly determined sets of rules
can teach immature children whether his (소유격) or her behavior is moral or not.
To begin with, young children will not commit
bad behaviors due to criticism they heard before. There is no
wonder that these children are simply afraid of what they do not want to hear.
Whenever they hear some irrigating
words, they usually cry or feel gloomy. Thanks to this natural pattern of their behaviors, adults who do not want their children to ignore them set some useful rules to observe.
I will (줄임말 사용을 지양해주세요.) take my personal experience as an
example. When I worked as a part-timer, I often saw a noticeable girl who came to the store with her mother. A girl wanted to buy everything she grabbed,
but her mother raised her voice and expelled her out of the store to adjust her daughter's bad habits. (어떤 가게였는지 부연설명을 해주시면 좋을 것 같습니다.)
At first, she cried whenever her mother punished her wrong behaviors.
As time went by, surprisingly, the (올바른 관사) girl
with her mother did not give much attention to things she saw, and just stood peacefully behind her caregiver.
On top of that, young children will acquire
moral behaviors and values through the implementation of defined rules.
Suppose that children were grown without
any feedbacks appraising their behaviors. Would it possible for them to have
rational values while they live? The
answer is definitely no.
Children without any imposed strict
rules cannot recognize the seriousness of their wrong behaviors.
For example, a study was conducted by
the Seoul Sociology Research Center to determine whether imposing strict rules
on young children could affect the formation of moral values. There were two
groups monitored. The first group of parents were asked to tell their children
that using violence could never be the means in any situation. However, children who are
born from the other group of parents did not hear such warnings when they had
grown.The result was
intriguing. After watching violent movies, the latter group of children showed (시제 -> 과거 시제. 자기 자신에게 보인게 아닌 것이기 때문에 themselves는 없어도 됩니다) offending behaviors to their peers. On the contrary, the former
group of them just watched the situation or even tried to stop their fighting.
The reason was that the fact that violence is a bad behavior is instilled in
the first group of students because of strict rules by their parents.
To sum up, parents who require their children
to obey strict rules must obtain advantages, taking prevention and education
into account. In this regard, imposing children to conform to rigid rules should be
prioritized.
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