▶ Your Answer :
A thought-provoking current issue concerns set
strict rules for children. Some believe that If parents wish to see their
children succeed in life, they should set strict rules for them. It is
therefore timely to consider the validity of perspective. For the following
reasons, I believe that setting strict rules for their children to success is
not appropriate. First, children will stress out because of the strict rules.
Second, there is no guarantees that the strict rules make the children to
success.
To begin with, many children are not handle
their stress when parents force to their children with strict rules. Nowadays,
many children are pressed about the success and they don`t know what is the
success`s norm so that setting strict rules are so harsh to young children. If
children lie under the setting rules, they will lose their dreams and hopes
also because of stress they are more far away from success. For example, the
Seoul National University researchers reported that there is two group. One
group is composed of five young children who lie on the strict rules. Another
group is also set of five young children who are not lie on the strict rules.
And then the researchers observed the two groups what is different of them and
after ten year later of this experimental, the second group become more successful
life than first group. This example shows that when parents set strict rules
their children it will have negative effect on their children`s future.
In addition, strict rules are not guarantees
children`s success. Nowadays, creativity thinking make children more to success
but when parents set of strict rules children will lose their creativity. If
children are limited by rules, their thinking will be confined. This will be
connected social problems that they cannot adjust suitable in their social group
because of lack of flexibility thinking. For example, Jake who is one of my
friends was very clever and wise when he was young. However, when he entered
the elementary school, their parents set the rules for him such as strict
schedules, hard training for study, and time limit to go home. And then, my
friends more and more stressed out and finally he lost his mine because of
tremendous stress. He lost his cleverness and smartness. Also he only moved in
time like a machine! I think that it is not proper to success when children are
in the set of strict rules. As this example shows, strict rules aren`t
appropriate to young children because this rules make children to narrow
thinking. |