▶ Your Answer : Honest is one of the most important standards to judge a person as a friend. Many people disagree over the statement that it is impossible to completely be honest with their friends. In my opinion, I feel that everyone can not absolutely be honest with their friends, for they have their own secrets which they don't want to disclose to anyone and there are a few times that being not honest is helpful for each other.
To start with, It is a undeniable fact that everyone has their own secrets all around the world. They not only want to conceal those, but also do not have to tell their friends. For example, unfortunately, my father died when I was 6 years old. it has been my secret which want to maintain. If I told the fact to my friends, they would have not felt comfort with me. As it has shown, whether people understand that their friends have the facts to hide or not, all their friends have their own secrets and can not be honest with them.
In addition, sometimes, it is needed not to be honest for several situations. That is, not being honest or good lies are beneficial with one another. For example, your girl friend comes to you with a new hair style, which looks awfull and do not fit in with her. If she ask you "do you think my new hair style looks good?", how do you tell her? In such a situation, there is no stupid person to think that I have to be honest to her. So occasionally good lies are required.
To sum up, it is evident that honest is a important quality in a good relationship as friends. However, everybody is impossible to be honest with their firends, since they have stories which they want to conceal, and also honest can not be applied in all situations. |