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It is often said that people should have more opportunities to meet a variety of friends. These chances help people to build social relationships and improve social skills. However, I prefer to hang out with a few of my closest friends. It is because if I spend time with my close friends, I can deepen our relationships and have intimate conversations with them. I believe that deep relationships and close conversations are more beneficial than taking part in groups consisted of a large number of people.
To begin with, spending time with one or two close friends helps people to build strong and deep relationships with them. It is due to the fact that people can share a variety of experiences with their friends by spending together, and valuable memories allow people to build better relationships. For example, I have two friends who I have maintained strong relationships about ten years. The reason that we can have a strong relationship is because we spent lots of time together in or out of college. We studied in a library, went to fancy restaurants and traveled together. I cannot talk about my college life without my two best friends. Therefore, I believe that spending time with close friends help people to make strong relationships.
Secondly, if people spend time with close friends, they can have intimate and deep conversations. However, people who are not familiar with each other are hard to have intimate conversations, and they talked about light topics, such as daily life and weather. Furthermore, people in large groups are hard to have controversy conversations. For instance, when I was in college, I liked to talk about politics in Korea. Sometimes, it made some conflicts between people when they are not enough familiar with each other to talk about controversy. Therefore, I believe that there are some restrictions to topics which are talked among unfamiliar people.
All in all, some prefer to hang out with lots of people, but I prefer to spend time with familiar friends. First of all, I and my friends can build good memories which is helpful to maintain our good relationships and have serious conversations and we do not have limitations to talk about something.
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