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Some people might think that spending time with many friends is better than with a few people as there would be more brisk in their activities. However, in my opinion, hanging out with a few friends is more enjoyable and help build stronger bond among friends.
First of all, people can spend their time more efficiently. If people hang out with one or two friends, it is easy to make plan and decide what to do. On the other hand, in case of hanging out with many people, it is definitely hard to make one decision even about where to go. Also, there would be a friends who are not satisfied with the decision. The friend might spoil everyone's feeling which must be happy while spending time with friends. To take my case as an example, I planned to go trip with nine people who are my high school friends. There were many opinions on what place to go. Therefore, it took lots of time to decide. The worst thing was that even though we decided to go beach, two of my friends wanted to go mountain and finally, the two refused to go to trip with us. This spoiled all people's feeling. This shows how difficult making a plan with many friends is.
On top of that, people can build their relationship more firmly if they spend time with a few people. There would be more opportunity to know each other and time to talk one by one. On the other hand, there would be less time to talk each other when people spend time with many people because it is evident that they would spend most of time in group. For example, I went to an amusement park with two friends. I met them at work one month ago so I was little bit uncomfortable with them. However, after spending happy and fun time with them at the park, I feel like we are closer than before and so as them.
To sum up, I firmly believe that spending free time with fewer friends is much happier than spending time with many friends as people can use time to build relationship and make it more valuable without pressure of considering everyone.
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