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Growing up, people sometimes have to make an important decision, and many people tend to get an advice from others before they decide because they do want to be more careful so that their decision works in a right way. Like these people, I strongly believe that a person should not make an important decision alone; the person should get an advice from others before his decision; by being helped from others, the person is able to not only make the best decision but also decide more quickly than when he decides by himself.
It is always hard and tough to deal with something by oneself; the person must have to take a risk when he makes a consequential decision alone. However, if the person asks people for some helps, their advices would make the task completed more easily. In my experience, after I graduated from high school, because of economic difficulties, I had to decide whether I go to a college in the U.S., or I delay my attending to the college in next year. I never had had this situation before, so I became more confused as I tried to think of that. I was so concerned and worried because I felt that whatever I decide, a result from my decision would be bad.
However, as my favorite teacher heard of my terrible situation, she asked her husband who had had a similar experience before to give me any advices, so I met her husband and talked to him about my future seriously. He suggested that I should delay my attending to a college and take a rest for a year by working at his academy. He knew how hard it is for me to not go to school, but he also encouraged me. Thanks to his advices and help, I could make my decision for my future, and actually still now, I am so glad that I listened to him. Even though I went to college more late than my aged people, I could not only help my parent’s economic situation but also got great experience by teaching students at academy.
Through my experience, I strongly think that a person should make an essential decision with help from others. Some people have experience which you never have, so they have wisdom which helps them behave wisely and correctly. It is not shameful to rely on other people; whenever you need to deal with something important, the best way to solve a problem is to get an advice from others.
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