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Friends are one of the important things in people’s lives since they are the people who are reliable like a family. Therefore, it is great worth to discuss whether choosing friends who can give you help or friends who can have fun with you. Although some people think that they should choose friends who can help them, I believe that friends who have fun with me bring several advantages over friends who can help me. In this essay, I will dearly show and develop what I think and why I think this way.
First of all, humorous friends can help people to release their stress. Generally speaking, most of the modern people have stress that sometimes cannot be understood by family but only understood by friends who get through similar stages of life. If people are talking about the concern they have to family to just simply release their stress, it would rather become big concern on family, not only simple conversation. Therefore, if people have friends who are humorous, they would understand their situation and try to help them to release their stress by making a simple joke. Here is a trust worthy research to illustrate the point, According to the KRI, the most famous research institution in Korea, 70 percent of people meet their friends to talk about their concern and making a simple joke to release their stress. This research demonstrates that humorous friends could help people to ease their stress.
Secondly, people who have relationship with their friends to just simply get help, the relationship cannot be prolonged. It does not take genius to know that people faced various problems in their lives. Sometime, people can get practical help from their friends but this is not always true. Therefore, it is better for people to choose friends who can have fun with you since the relationship between friends who want help could be easily broken when friends cannot give actual help. Here is my personal experience to clarify the point. I became close friends with, Sarah, by giving help on doing math research. I was pleasure to give her help on math since I was really good in math. However, when she asked me about history course, I could not give a help at all. After that they, she made another friend who can give her help in history course and did not talk to me except when she need help on math. After that incident, I stop talking to Sarah since I was so upset about Sarah’s behavior. If she regarded me as fun and friendly friends, she would keep relationship with me but because of the Sarah’s behavior, I stop talk to her. This example shows that relationship with friends who can only help you cannot be extend long.
In conclusion, I think people should choose friends who can have fun with them. This is not only because they can release people’s stress but also relationship between friends can be prolonged. Therefore, I would suggest people to choose friends who can make a joke with you easily.
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