Many children's decision can be wrong. Also, when they face a difficult event, they often become surprised. However, I think they should make a decision for own important case. First, they must solve their problems in success, or they may lose their ability solving problems. Second, they must settle themselves because it is their problems, not their parents' or teacher's problem.
They have to solve their own problems. When their parents help them continuously, they cannot do next time. They have to improve their ability of solving problem themselves. To illustrate, in my school, there is a girl who always ask for help. I asked to her why she always ask for help, though she doesn't try to solve problem. She said when she was young, her parents always helped solving problem, so she cannot solve her problem.
Moreover, it is the children's problem not parents' or teacher's problem. Actually, the children have to solve their problem. For example, one of my classmates loved a boy. She asked to her mother to solve the problem. Her mother said to ignore the boy. She had no choice so she ignored him. However she cannot get along with the boy again. She suffered about one year because of her mother.
In conclusion, I think children must decide though it is an important event. The children must learn ability to make a decision and they have to solve their own problem.
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