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However, I disagree with the statement that young adults are mostly inflenced by their friends since I think that their familys have the greatest impact on them. there are two main reasons: their parents can offer them appropriate advices and they feel more connection with their family.
Firstly, we know that it is our parents who be able to give us proper advices as time passes.
In a sence, it is true that those who experience the same problems with you would understand better and suggest some solutions to fix your problem. However, we cannot make sure weather the soltions are right or not. However, given that our parents already experienced the same problem in the past when they were in a similar age with us, they can give us disireable advice based on their experience. On the other hands, the solutions friends give us are not varified becuase they also struggling with the problems.
Suppose that you want to ask an advice weather who is your ideal husbans(배우자) or which people you can trust in your work. It is your parents not your peer friends who are older than you and have knowledge about your problems.
In addtion, young adults feel more connection with their family than with their friends.
for a while, we might think that friends are only who understand me since they are also struggle with the same problems to us. Not only but becuase we also spend more time with our friends as we are glowing, it is more convenient and comfortant to talk with our friend. However Have you ever experienced that you heard it again from others after talking your secreat matters only to your best friends? What I mean, friends do not stay on my side forever and sometime turn thier back. after then, my secreat probelms become matters teasing to them. On contrary with this, family is alway on my side no matters I am wrong or not. furthermore they help me to change my bad habit or to solve problem by giving a proper advice. truly they my weakness 나의 단점에 마음아파한다.
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