As far as I am concerned about the main point that trading money between friends does not spoil friendship, I do not agree with it. In fact, it is the most great part of breaking friendship because People do respond sensitively in a problem involved a money even in close relationship with friends. In this point, I will present two reasons for my opinion as follow.
To begin with, people often have a difficulty in keeping relationship with friends when a money is connected with them. Because lending or borrowing a money make a constraint in their relationship. For example, in my experience, I have an experience that I lended much money to my best frined. However, then we did not make an even relationship due to the moeny. Whenever we meet and play, we felt a burden of minds by which we had to finish our money trade as posiible as we could. Thus, the time we met was lttle by little reduced before this financial connection was solved. From this experience, I think that lending a money can break friendship.
Moreover, lending a money can generate the serious problem in which a whole friendship will be broken out. People tend to have a idea that borrowing a money from a friend is relatively trivial than borrowing a money from a strange person. Because in people minds, the mindset that not paying back a money to a friend is okay arises just due to a frined. For this atittude, many friendship have been broken. We can see these cases in the social and school life.
To sum up, I believe that trading a money between friends is not recommended. By lending a money to friend or borrowing a money from a friend, people will have a uncomportable minds with each other, and they will meet serioius problem in their relationship because heavy subject in a money hinders people from making transparent connection. For these reasons, I do not agree with the main point that lending a money to a friend will not break friendship. |