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People tend to have friends who are similar to them. With the similarity, they can easily find common things between them so that they can sometimes build strong bonds. However, I strongly believe that one should not adhere to make friends who are similar to him/her, but rather, it is better to try to make relationship with those who are different from him or herself. Having friends who are different from them not only helps people helps people (to) find out their strength and weakness strong and weak points better, but also and also encourages them to explore interesting activities.
First of all, friends with having different character can are more likely to see strong and weak points of each other. If one has only a friend who is similar to him/her, the friend cannot give him/her a useful advice because the friend has the same kind of outlook of life. On the other hand, if a friend has a different kind of view, he (or she) can easily find your good or bad habits and voice his opinion when you need. For example, I have a friend who is a very outgoing (style), while I am a introversive (style). He sometimes tells me to be more active or be more sociable(,) especially just before the special occasion like job interview, in which his advice is really needed when he thinks it really needs to tell to be necessary(,) such as when I have an interview for a job. I believe that if we have similar characters, he could not give me that kind of advice from the different point of view.
In addition, having a different friend is more interesting. If friends have disparate tendencies, it is likely that they to have different kinds of hobbies. If someone is active, then he/she usually likes outdoor activities(,) such as mountain climbing or skiing, while if someone is inactive(,) then he/she likes indoor activities(,) such as reading a book or playing a board game. When friends with different characters meet each other, they may encourage each others to do what they like hobbies that they like in order to spend more enjoyable time. To illustrate, I have a very outgoing friend who likes sports very much. He once asked me to join his soccer club(,) and I it ends up with finding myself (who are) enjoying the sport more than any other indoor hobbies which I had liked to do much.
All in all, one should try to make friends be friends with others who are different from himself or herself him/her, because it is very useful for them to be given substantial advice from friend who has different vies as well as to take a chance to enjoy interesting activities that has never done before to him/her in that the friends can give him/her a very substantial advice from a different view as well as an opportunity to enjoy interesting activities which he/she has never thought of.
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