it is better to spend time with small friends than many. |
Some people think there is an irresistible theory; the more the merrier. They place priority on the quantity of friends to get along, rather than the quality. However, in my opinion, it is meaningless to emphasize the volume, yet concern about how amiable the friends are though they might be small in amount. This is because in the most cases, a group with a lot of people lacks the quality of services in the reason of equal apportioning of the finite resources. As mentioned at the top, hanging around with a lot of friends make individual to neglect the depth of personal fellowship. To operate the party in the base of well rounded method and impartial distribution, the individual must preserve objectivity which might jeopardize the friendship to a businesslike relationship. For example, if an individual is meeting a party and a lot of friends participated, the host spends all his energy on the management of the party, and comparatively pays less attention of how the friends feel and their view of the individual’s cold attitude towards them. On the contrary, a minimized group with few participants implements the real means of reconciliation. In spite of focusing on ostensible facet of the group, the individual can deal with the emotional friendship with higher priority than the former factor. Imagine an event that friends in the group talk about themselves’ idea towards each other. If there are many friends who wants to talk and there are limited time, each of them have to briefly condense there opinion because as mentioned in first paragraph, impartial distribution of resources, mainly time here, is necessary for the evenness among the group. Whereas, in the case of small group, each individual deserves relatively longer time to converse about their thoughts and eventually, able to share more sympathy and compassion. In conclusion, I think getting along with few sociable friends is better than to have large amount of friends from the possibility to neglecting the importance of the quality blurred by quantity. Therefore, I strongly agree with the statement that it is better to spend time with on or two friends than many.
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