Agree or disagree? Letting a friend make a mistake is better than saying or doing something that would destroy the friendship. |
Those who are too sensitive might not want to be told about their misbehavior. However, I think that we should advice or saying to our friends' mistake even it is harmful to the friendship than to let a friend make a mistake. There are two major reasons: our friends will happy to they have a advisor and no misunderstanding to each other. First of all, there's nobody who likes someone tell to them their mistake. However, to think about on long run, it is better to tell to friends their mistake because somehow it can have a misunderstanding, for example, if I have a big mistake, and your friend don't tell me anything about my mistake. I can misunderstanding him for he doesn't paying attention to me. This can become more worse for our friendship. Also, some people will happy to have a good friends and at the same time is a good advisor because they can tell each other's mistake or secret which can't talk about to other people. Moreover, in my experience, if the friends who doesn't want to listen their mistake it has no reason to maintain their relationship. Some people are have a egoistic mind. It is not a good personality to have a good friend. For example when I was 10years old, I'm going to the cram school, I have a many friends on their. Some friends are really kind, and some are not, especially one friends are really egoistic. She don't want to listened her mistake, and she always wanted things from other, never give things to other. And some they I had a fight with her because of her bad personality. She have a big mistake, but she didn't want to recognize that. So I doesn't needed to maintain the relationship. Like this if someone are doesn't want to listen their mistake or doesn't recognize their mistake. I suggest that we don't need to maintain the relationship. To conclude, there are many different people in the earth, and each other's have different personality. Sometimes we have to point out their mistake, but we need to recognize our mistakes too. Therefore I think that if the relationship is going worse to tell to their friends mistake, we have to saying there mistake. |