I disagree on the premarital cohabitation.
First of all, cohabitation between male and female who did not get married gives rise to continual discords. Things that are shared to each other will be increased and they have to be ready to suffer discomfort. Even though lots of people make their plan before cohabitation with someone, the majority of them do not keep to their plan. Especially in case of students, their school life which is the most important part for them will be spoiled. Cohabitation also causes a number of troubles. For example, they can lose an interst in studying due to the enjoyment of cohabitation, and what is more, there might be lack of diverse experiences for go on society and negligence of their human relations. Environmental changes from the end of the cohabitation can make a mess of the living pattern; drinking whole night, unbearable to loneliness. Cohabitation pursuing temporary pleasure at the sacrifice of followed results is utterly fatal.
Secondly, in point of legal view, the male and the female who are in cohabitation cannot be regarded as a marital relation and also cannot be under the legal protection. To illustrate this point, in case that they have a dispute such as male's cutting off the connection with female when the female is with child or they are in financial problem, they have to go through a complicated procedure to take legal protection.
Lastly, Korean social consciousness regarding to premarital cohabitation is in the negative so far. Although young people prefer to cohabitation, they tend to not inform their family or other people the fact. This is because Korean are not open-minded in terms of sex as much as those of western countries. If male or female doesn't get married with one's cohab, the past of cohabitation can be a cause of a dispute and misunderstaniding coming from the problem of verginal purity.
Considered such problems which I mentioned above, Premarital cohabitation should be sublated to complete real love and establish upright values of modern society.
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