It is often said that outlook appearances are important.
Although some people may agree with this statement, I firmly believe that advantages of internal aspects are more significant, when we judge people.
There are several reasons for this opinion, and I would like to describe two of the most important ones.
First, hasty decisions often create bad results. Moreover, making better outlook can create stress.
Most importantly, hasty decisions by considering outlook often make worse results.
Granted, first impression is important when we first meet someone, but, his or her internal aspects are more important in our daily relationship.
For example, last year, I met a person whose appearance is so humble and unpretentious that I consider he is a very quite man. But, sometimes later I realized he is our mayor.
As a result, only considering someone with external appearances makes it difficult for us to correct decisions.
Therefore, we should concentrate on one's inner aspects.
Moreover, developing outward appearance can cause stress.
If we devote all our energy to adorn our external appearances, we can't focus on our work. In the end, this creates worse results.
For example, the Seoul National University in Korea has shown a study on relationship between formal clothing as better outlook and its results.
According to the study, almost people make better results, when they wear casual dress code.
Therefore, we should focus on our internal aspects.
In conclusion, I consider that we would better focus on one's internal aspects rather than outward aspects, when we first meet and interact with someone.
If we consider their inner aspect, we can gain better relationship. Additionally, we don't have to worry about developing our outward appearances.
Regardless of what others say, I think it is about time we should focus on our internal aspects.
The more people realize this, the better the society will become.
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