친구의 잘못된 행동을 지적해야 하는가? (어디서 우연히 봐서 생각난 주제;) |
a friend in need is a friend indeed. It is clear that the good friend is defined as a helpful man when you're in trouble. If your friend is doing something wrong and you are a good friend, it is time that your friend is in trouble and you really have to do anything to help him. Isn't it what the good friend should do to modify the wrong way your friend goes along?
To point out your friend's wrong behavior is quite a good choice for him in a long-term view, compared to pass over something wrong your friend has done. Probably it can make trouble in mind between you and your friend to point it out. But if owing to your indication to what your friend has done, he could be better, then your relationship with friend is likely to become stronger ever before. For example, Jeong Woon-chan, the ex-chief of Seoul National University, in his youth, had a friend who was a bad guy to hit boys in the village. He always told his friend not to do such a bad thing, but each time he said that, he was beaten by his friend. However he patiently kept saying that to his friend, finally his friend had no fight after then. And knowing his poor environment, his friend supported to pay his school admission.
"Friend" is a relation of mind than reason, which makes it difficult to indicate friend's wrong. But to go wrong with a friend leads to a bad relationship with a friend. Therefore care about your friends, indicate their wrong behavior and you will get a good relationship with friends. |
첫영작이라 그런지 2시간이상이나 걸렸네요 ㅎㅎ 엄청 어렵군요 영작이란. 엉망이기도 하고;
하지만 인강 나중에 신청해서 들으면서 하면 좀 괜찮아지겠죠???? 아닌가.