While
majority of people take it for granted that the period of one’s twenties is not
crucial as we recognize, others are strongly convinced that the time of that
age generates an array of influences for one’s life. Both arguments may have
their own reasons to support their ideas. If I were asked to choose one of
them, I would say the second opinion mentioned above is reasonable. There
exists two reasons to advocate my perspective in many aspects.
First,
it’s prone for people during the age of twenties to make a lot of unexpected
mistakes, letting them go through trials and errors with ease. In front of
problems produced by their inappropriate behaviors, they might lead themselves
to be left to be out of the blue, due to lack of responsibility they are aimed
with. For example, I’ve seen one of my closest relatives, Kenny, had a similar
experience. Thanks to his parents’ sophisticated abilities, he was able to be a
CEO in his company when he was only 26-year-old. Once he thought it was out of
his league, but he could be adapt to his life in the conglomerate in that he
had a smart brain. Just several months later, he did well in his company so
that implanted a positive impressions to his parents while being regarded as an
erudite person in his field. But unfortunately, this situation not only made
him get rid of his characteristic of humbleness, but also let him be vain.
Therefore, he became not to be interested in maintaining the stable management;
put the company through difficulties, which made his life quality be worsen.
Second,
a decision made by a twentysomething may be an apparent direction point in a
person’ life. To be specific, in terms of students who need to pick a major in
order for their future careers, if not for deep-considering, there is a huge
tendency that they might confront troublesome situations in their lives,
ranging from having trouble on choosing a job to getting elaborate grades in
exams of their colleges’. For
instance, I have a best friend who I have known for a long time. Her name is
Lisa, who got a really exquisite records during the high school lives. She
seemed to get a well-rounded job because she got straight A’s in her school.
But owing to the dreadful abilities her parents had, she had no way but could
not go to a college. In this vein, after graduating, she decided to learn
technology without participating in any activities regarding the areas of
study. Regardless of the earnest desire she had toward her life, it was
impossible for her to sustain her life stably, making her confused a lot.
To
sum up, there are many pros and cons about the statement. But in my case, I
strongly believe that one’s fruitful span of 20s plays a pivotal role in making
him or her cast a glow ahead.
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