▶ Your Answer : Keeping an eye on kids behavior for their improvement sounds plausible, but has its loopholes as well. Kids have their own lives regardless of their age, and they are advised to follow their patterns of behaviors. They should not be monitored by anybody else, even when they are their own parents. First of all, once a kid knows that someone is observing what they are doing the child tends to care unnecessarily about the surroundings, not knowing what to do at an appropriate time about their daily routines. So, the kid should be the decision maker for himself, and should not depend on others' guidance for whatever they do. Of course, the parents should give the kid any necessary guidance every once in a while, but that should not be on every movement, thought or action. In a nutshell, to keep monitoring childrens' behaviors will not prove effective, but only worsen their characters and personalities, as they would consider constant monitoring burdensome. Advice and guidance will turn out healthy only when they are given at a critical moment. |