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As children grow, parent’s education styles
become more important than when they were younger. In this situation, some
people think that strict rules for children should be set for their success in
life. However, in my opinion, strict rules are not necessary for children to
obtain success for two reasons. Strict rules could be huddles for their success
and also make children select wrong ways for their success.
First of all, strict rules for children
could be huddles for them to obtain success. One of the most important things
for success is creativity. If parents set strict rules for children, they will
spend hard time to think creatively because they need to do things just in the
boundary that parents set. When a child got homework from school, he will put
efforts to find the way solving the problem. Using internet via computer,
finding articles from books, and so forth could be measures for doing homework.
But it parents made rules that their child can’t use computer on the weekdays,
the child cannot use the computer for solving the problem. As a result, children
won’t think other creative ways to solve their problem and finally they won’t
succeed in life.
Moreover, if parents set too strict rules
for their children, children could select wrong ways for their life. Most
children want to do the things that parents say do not do. So as parents set
the rules strictly, children would act exact the other way that parents want
to. For example, when parents set a rule that they will give a dollar for a day
to their child for their future economic ability, the child will think that’s
too small amount money for their daily life. Then the child will find another
way to get more money. And some children will get money from friends using
violence for example.
As a result, as the importance of rules for
their children has risen because parents want them succeed in life, some people
think that strict rule will be a good measure for their success. However, in my
opinion, strict rules are not necessary for the reasons I mentioned above.
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