Always telling the truth is the most important consideration in any realtionship. 동의 하니 안하니?! |
when I was in middle school, I sometimes told my mother that I needed some money to buy books for studying, which is totally a lie to get something that I want to have with that money. Several times were sucessful that my mom didn't notice what I lied, but she became to know the fact a few days after. She was so disappointed at my dishonesty, not about my spending money, and I had been also afraid of the possibility that she could know the truth whenever I lied her. I think being honest is the best policy of making good realtionship with the people precious to me. first of all, as my mom was disappointed to me,if you are not honest in your realtionships with others, they would be disappointed to you and the trust between you and the people would be easily broken after they found out truth. Trust is the most important thing in keeping good realtionships. Some people make a decision of not seeing their friends because they can not believe the friends and can not depend on them. If some people mean a lot to you, you have to tell a truth in any circumstances. Telling a lie may make you feel easy at the moment, but you have to think the moment could be the last moment with the people due to your lying. The other reason why I think of the importance of being honest is for ourselves. If we lies to someone, we become to feel difficult whenever we have any chace to confront the person becasue of a guilty conscience as I was afraid of my monm about her knowing the fact I lied. Dishonesty makes you have another face,which means that you have to care and remember what you told before because you have more than one things made up about one fact. You may not want to face the people you lied and try to avoid them because you are hiding something from them. It would be not good for your mental health. For these reasons, we should be honest in out relationships. Good relationships can not be bought with much money,and it is not easy to be kept, but easy to be lost by a stupid mistake of lying. |