문제: When a friend of yours makes a mistake, you have to tell him about it even though it will damage the friendship. Do you agree or disgaree?
Some people never tell their friends about mistakes what they made. It can be easy way to get along with your friend. However, it might have a bad effect on both you and your friend since it might make bigger problem later on. Moreover, indicating friend’s fault usually makes them friendlier.
First, if you don’t tell your friend about his fault and just endure it, bigger problem will occur in the future eventually. Let me take my personal experience for example. When I was in high school, one of my friends always used my school stuff such as pens and notes without my permission. I thought it was very rude behavior and I hated it. However, I never tell him how I felt about his behaviors because I thought it would damage our friendship. As a result, I’ve never seen him again after graduating high school since I could not forgive his lasting bad habit. Actually, he was good friend except the bad habit. If I told him his mistakes that he had done without any guilt right the time he did it, he might have changed his bad habit and we could have kept good relationship.
Secondly, friendship can be stronger when people directly tell each other about their mistakes. In my experience, there is one friend who is the closest to me. He and I have fought many times since we were young. We have always indicated our mistakes to each other. It has been great helpful for improving and developing our lives. There would be no one who can tell you about your fault without hurting your mind.
To summarize, although it could be hard to say ‘you made a mistake’ to your friend right after you recognized the fault, you should tell your friend about his mistake right then. Otherwise, it could be bigger problem some day in the future. In addition, telling each other’s mistakes will be rather better to bond the relationship between you and your friend.
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