When you see a mistake your friend made, what will you do? Will you just ignore it because you don’t want to make trouble with your friend? It seems true that you may discourage make him or her discouraged. However, there are positive factors if you tell him or her about one’s mistake. First of all, the friend of yours will not make the same mistake in the future, and you and your friend will be getting close to each other.
If you tell your friend about his mistake, he can prevent to it can prevent him from making the same mistake in the future. Otherwise, if you don’t say anything to him, he will definitely make the same mistake again. When I worked at a production company in Tokyo, I have had a friend named Ruichi. Even though he was a really talented person, he always made many typos when he did paper-works. At that time I thought it was very small mistakes, so I didn’t tell him about it because I was worried if it would hurt him. However, one day, he got fired because he made really serious typos in a very important letter for the boss. If I had told him about it since when I first saw it at first, he would have remedied his mistake before he lost a job.
Furthermore, friendship between you and your friend are will get stronger than before if you tell him about the mistake. Personally, I think that a real friend should help one’s friends to prevent their mistakes by talking directly even though sometimes it may damage the friendship. For example, when I was a high school student, I have had one a friend named Steven. We were very close to each other, so every after school we played together and studied together. However, he always made mistakes in tests, so I reminded him his mistakes every time before the tests, and as a result, he could reduce the mistakes, and he could get higher grades in the test in the end. He thanked me a lot, so we could be more close each other.
In conclusion, I believe that talking to your friends about their mistakes is a wiser choice. It can prevent that your friends from making the same mistakes; therefore friendship between you and your friends are will become closer denser. You don’t have to hesitate if you want to tell your friends about their mistakes. It makes you as the real friend of them others!
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