It is commonly believed that if people can not say anything nice,it is better to say nothing because it can hurt others and it can raise one's pessimistic point of view. However, I think their belief is a misconception. There are several reasons for my opinion,but two of the most significant ones are as follows. Most importantly, people regard bad words for him or her as very thankful. In addition, people can not reach a consensus between co-workers or friends.
First and foremost,people considered the behavior of pointing out appreciative. Although some people said that bad words can hurt others' mind,it is undeniable that it can also be a chance to change people in a positive way. For example, When i was in school, i had a friend who was rational. So, he often judged a situation or events with me in a right way. I really liked this friend because i had thought that the best friend was a friend who knew the difference between
critisism and just condemnation. he never condemned me in a negative way. it means he never hurted my mind. Rather, he had spoken critic words for me. As such, I could kick the habits,such as hasty judgement. As a result, his bad words would encourage me rather than discourage. Therefore,it is certain that bad words for people can be a opportunity of improvement.
Moreover, people may have trouble getting consensus with others. Granted that saying in a negative way is not always good because people can be raised by pessimism, it can play a vital role in consensus with others. For instance,when i watched a soccer game, two team were matched. In the first half, A team's captain ordered,saying bad words for concentration on the match. However, A team were losing by 1points. because one player who was in charge of defender not played based on order. So, before second half began,the captain scorned him about his wrong play. Afterwards, he played with order. A team finally came to the consensus with all members. In other words, they played like a one man,showing team play like a saw-toothed wheel. Hence,bad words are sometimes helpful for people to reach the consensus.
In conclusion,i firmly believe that people should say in a negative way,if they can not say anything nice in that it can be changed into the best gift for someone and it can help people to arrive at an agreement with others. Regardless of what others saying,it is about time that people spoke badly for someone or teams.