It is often said that if your friend makes a mistake, you do not have to tell him about it because it cause a break between you and your friend. However, I strongly argue that telling him or her is the best way to maintain continuous friendship, so you have to correct your friend's error. The rationale behind this is that every one have has an experience of mistake and it is not a big deal in one's life. Moreover, the friend who points out your mistake is a real friend in point of lifelong a long-term view.
First, I believe that no one exists without mistakes experience. It means that everyone do makes mistakes whatever if he want or not even though he or she does not want to. Most of mistakes are in not on purpose, and it they do not deserve criticism. deserve excuse except from critisizing. For example, my friend Josh, was an exchange student in Japan, he lived in a dorm with Japanese roommates. Since he has no experience of living with Japanese, he did made many mistakes like wearing shoes in the room every time. It is impolite way in the most of oriental society. However, it was only a cultural difference and the Japanese roommates forgave him because he thought that it was only a mistake.
:여기에 나온 예제는 문화차이에 대한 예제 같아요 ;ㅅ; 친구가 실수했을때 말을 했더니 민망해했지만 이점을 고치고 오히려 고마워했다는 식의 이야기를 써주세요 .
Additionally, I strongly argue that the friend who helps you to correct your mistakes of problems is a real friend. In other words, the true friend have a thought believes that his friend becomes better than now will change for the better(좋아지다). That's why your friends tells you about your mistakes, and it may helpful to make you be a good man. For example, I have many friends around me, but there was are only a few true friends who tells me corrects my mistakes. When I got had troubled with my senior collegues, I needed consulting from friend. Only one of my friends saysid to me that my arrogant attitude is was the problem so be careful with your my words. After that, I could be a good collegue with my senior.
:다른 친구들은 넌 아무문제도 없어 ~ 이런식으로 이야기했지만 진정한 친구들의 진실된 충고를 받고 더 좋아질 수 있었다. (다른 친구와 비교해주세요!)
To sum up, the true friend is who is helpful you to be improved with advice. The reason are not only it is the meaning of the true friend, but also the mistake do not have big impact on your life. Giving truthful advice is the meaning of a true friend and those friends prevent you from making bigger mistakes. Therefore, these are the two most convincing reasons for my contention. |