When people meet a person, people tend to
judge one`s personality through his or her first impression. In my opinion however,
I truly believe that there are no proper relationship between person`s
personality and his or her first impression
To begin with, I think that people have to
meet long period time in order to know one`s character. Put it differently, we
cannot definitely know whether a person is trustful person at one time.
According to a recent survey conducted by well-known research firm in New York,
seventy-five percents of respondents think that first impression do not have
any relationship with person`s character under their experience. Instead, they
claim that after people meet a person at least 10 times on average, then people
can approximately guess what types of person is he or she and then they decide
to trust him or her. Accordingly, this clearly show that people prefer to judge
person`s character after they have been through enough time with a person and
this illustrate that there are no connection between first impression and
person`s character.
In addition, if person is handsome or cute,
people usually have positive first impression about he or she, but I strongly
think that person`s appearance cannot judge if person has good character or
not. I have friend named peter. When I met him first time, I did not trust him
and I saw him very negatively. Be honestly, his appearance was really horrible,
he was short, and he had pimple on his face. As time went on however, I realized
that my judgment was absolutely wrong. He is actually pretty good at playing
basketball and soccer even though he is short. He is also smart guys,
especially in math. He taught me math really kindly. I had no basic knowledge
about math, so he probably felt toughness to teach me, but he did not complain at
all, so I thought that he is such an awesome guy. In the test, I did the best
jobs ever since I was born thanks to his teaching. My math mark went up from
fifty percents to eighty percents. It reminds me appearance cannot decide whether
person has good personality or not.
To sum up, I truly believe that people
cannot judge one`s personality through his or her first impression because there
are no relation between first impression and one`s character and one`s
appearance cannot determine whether person is trustful person or not. |