It is often said that it is better to complain in person than in writing. Some people may say that it is hard time complaining in person. However, I argee that complaining through in person is better for two reasons. First, it is more effective by complaining in person than by writing. Second, It is more easily to get a long with the person after uncomforatble sitaiton is gone.
Most of all, it is a more effective way to complain in person than in writing. Some people may insist that doing complain is makes people more nervy . Thus, even if you are offensive stance, you may make a mistake due to unstable mind. However, if someone who keeps going to avoid complains in personal, they could not overcome thier damage which is brought about other people. Let me take one of my friends for an example. When he was in the middle school, he had very shy personality. Some classmates bullied him even though he did not anything toward them. They just bullied him for their killing time in the class. One day, he wrote a paper to them politely. The paper contained following contents 'do not bother me'. However they red his paper, they did not stop bulling him. Eventually, he spoked out them that "do not touch any more, if you touch again, I will fight you". After the event, they did not bully him. I realized that it is a useful way to complain in person.
On top of that, it is more easily to get along with the person after uncomfortable situation is gone. Let me take my experience for an example. When I was in college, I fought with my girlfriend due to her lying. As soon as I realized her lying, I was angry with her untrusted stance. Eventually, I told her with her untrusted personality, she would upset my ungerneous stance. Regardless of her lying, I could not realize that my personality is so progressive until she told me. Even though her lying made me upset, I also knew my another perspective of mind. In addition, I take care of myself thanks to the her voice and I could understand why she lied to me. After a month, she told me that lying to you was my mistake. After the event, I could get a long with her and also think about that people could more socilize with other people through open conversaion.
In conslusion, I think that it is more helpful to complain in person than in writing. This is because, It is more effective way to complain in personal. Also, it is more easily to get long with the person after unconfortable situation. |