▶ Your Answer :
Undoubtedly, family and friends play a
significant role in people's daily life in many of the place where they work or
play. Some people think that high salaries but far away to live from their
family or friends is more useful for them, while others do not. Both sides may
have their own reasons to support their views. If I had to choose one, I would
say that giving low salaries but allow them to live close to their family or
friends is better. There are several reasons as follows.
To begin with, when people live their
family and friends, it can strengthen their emotional band and feelings
security in their relationships. It gives them more chances to socialize with
their loved one by getting to know and understand each other. Being with people
they care about tends to prevent them from feeling lonely in today's cynical
society. For example, when my sister worked in company which was located far
away her home, she often felt depressed thinking that her life became an
exhausting routine. It was difficult to make friends she could rely on, since
all of them seemed busy and indifferent to other, treating each other as
rivals. Fortunately, she was able to get over her feeling loneliness by living
together with her younger brother and parents. She was able to seek for advice
and obtain words of comfort by spending more time with them. By doing this, she
was able to connect with them and promote her relationship.
In addition, living with family or friends
can improve their sense of responsibility. Living with family requires many
obligations such as managing time, abiding rule at home and respecting others.
When such obligations are fulfilled, they are realized that it brings about a
good result. For example, my younger brother used to lazy and selfish when he
lived alone at his apartment. He has changed little by little after he moved
his house to his parents' home. He realized that his punctuality could help him
spend with his family while his laziness could negatively everyone. In
particular, he became more prompt with time, played his part better and even encouraged
other to be responsible. He also could save his money because he did not need
to buy some products to live at his parents' house. So his low salaries was no
problem for him. Without his selection about living with family, he would still
have been irresponsible.
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