Different people have different opinions about whether parents can be the most precious mentor to us. I strongly believe that we can learn almost everything in life from our parents. That's because they set our minds up when we were at the very young age and they automatically become our role model throughout our lives.
First of all, many of our characteristics are made when we were really young. As generally known, once someone's mind is set up, it's hard to change his or her temperament. So, it's very important for kids to be treated carefully by their parents. For example, there is a study about twins that each one of them lives with different parents. It's showed us that other enviornments, especially their parents, make nothing common between the twins but their appearances. Since we usually have to live the rest of our lives with characteristics set by parents, it's easy to say that parents' influences on our lives are bigger than from any other one.
In addition, a lot of people chose their parents as role model because we spend many time with our parents almost every day. We follow and imitate their way of acting or speaking. To take personnel experience, I really respect my father and want to be like him in my future. What makes me to think like this is that he has devoted himself to our family and always do his best on anything in his life. I have been keeping words from my father in my mind and always try to follow his statements. Consequently, I've could improve myself and done right things with that. Thus, parents' role in our life is very important and meaningful.
In conclusion, our parents have the most important impacts on our lives than others. If we had good relationship with them, we would be able to learn many worthless things and how to live by. |