Do you agree or disagree with the following statement? In these days, speaking is more important than writing. |
As today's society is progressing towards a more advanced stage, a matter of communication has become the most important issue for people. Unlike people in the past, today's people have to learn a way to communicate with others in order to survive in working industries. Some people say that one's ability to write plays more significant role for his or her survivial than to speak. On the other hand, others believe that speaking takes more adventages than writing. From my personal experience, I have to say that my idea strongly bonds with a claim that states in a latter agrument. If a person is capable of speaking, he or she will take adventages from not only communicating with others in an effective way but also being a position to solve problems as a negotiator.
First of all, one's ability to speak helps the one to have a commnication with others in an effective way. As I already mentioned in a former paragraph, a sense of commnication truly plays a crucial role on lives of people in today's society. If a person fails to commnicate or misunderstands meanings of each other, the person will have an issue of adjusting or adpating him or her to environment where he or she belongs to. When I was as young as the age of five, I had some issues about commnicating with others. My mom thought that I was just too shy to speak myself out to the public. But as time went by my mom found out that I was a child who was naturally lack of ability to speak. After undergoing some training sessions related with a matter of communication, I became to commnicate as well as other children who had no problems with commuicating. I still remember the days when I had no friends because of my lack of ability to commnicate. The days when I had a trouble with speaking or commnicating were considered to be the lonest moment that I had ever have. After having training sesessions, I learned serveal ways to have an effective commnication with others. As I became a child who was capable of speaking, it became much easier for me to commnicate with others; I could build new relationships with new friends because of my ability to commnicate. Hence, one's ability to speak helps the one to have a commnicatation with others in an effective way.
Secondly, one's ability to speak helps the one to be in the center position to be a negotiator who solves conflicts among different groups. As today's society tends to give a weighty importance on materials such as property and money, conflicts more often happen than they once did in the past. In order to make air of harmony in today's society, learning a process of negotiation is as important as getting jobs with high incomes. Since I was a young child, I have admired my older sister as a mentor. Although I was a child with lack of ability to speak, my older sister was always being a person who naturally knew ways to negotiate with others. I still remember when my older sister found the most peaceful solution to solve conflicts among her classmates. In order to improver her ability to speak, my older sister went to several speaking contests and became the winners of those challenges. My older sister always insisted the importance of speaking in order to become a negotiator. Thus, one's ability to speak helps the one to be in the center position to be a negotiator who solves confilicts among different groups.
In conclusion, I strongly believe that speaking is more important than writing. Speaking helps people not only to commnicate with others in an effective way but also to become a negotiator who relieves conflicts among different groups. |