As far as I can remember, people have been debating that first impressions tell a lot about people.
뭐 이런식으로 시작하는것보다 더 확실하게 자신있게, People have debated whether first impression play a significant role in relationships with others...뭐 이런식으로; From my point of view, I firmly feel that it is not true all the time because three reasons which I will explain now.
First of all, everyone may have has a different way of treating new people in meeting for the first time.
There are two big kinds of methods of treating new people. First, some people are so sociable that they can talk about themselves with new people easily, but others who are very shy and somewhat unsociable try not to talk much and hide themselves in some ways which makes new people prefer friendly ones to unfriendly ones. >> 뭔가 우왕좌왕하는느낌이랄까요;
active people are usually better at socializing than passive people, so active people often get
good first impressions than passive ones..
It is , however, not always true. Because it is just differences between sociable and unsociable personalities.무슨말을 하려는지 모르겠네요;;그래서 이 문단의 support.topic이 모죠?
뭐 그래서, 첫인상은 사람들에 대해서 알기에는 너무나 limited된 info를 제공한다.. 왜냐하면
뭐 사람마다 다른방식의 socializing 이 있고..뭐 이렇다..식으로 토픽이랑 연관을 시켜야겠죠^^
Secondly, initial impressions change over time. In my case, most of my friends told me that they thought I did not talk much and was not funny when they met me for the first time.(I was such a quiet person with no sense of humor because I did not talk that much for the first time.) But after several hours hanging out together, they told me totally differently than before(they realized I am totally opposite from the first time..). They said I was so funny and a talkative guy. I think I talk and share my opinions only with people who are familiar with me. That is why I insist first impressions changes over time.
Lastly, physical appearances affect a lot on first impressions. It is obvious and natural that a good-looking person may get a better impression than a little bit bad-looking one does. Despite of this fact, we should not discriminate people by their appearances. We are all aware that is absolutely unfair. Everyone has their own appearances and traits. Of course, they must be respected equally.
이렇게 쓰고 말면 쌩뚱맞은 문단이 되는거죠; 토픽이랑 항상!! 연관을 시켜야 한다는거 주의하세요
To sum up, everyone may have a different view of this issue. However, I firmly disagree with the statement that first impressions show a lot about people. As I mentioned above, we need to take some time to get to know new people and respect them without any prejudice. Moreover, physical appearances are not the only ones we need to know who new person is.
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