People meet hundreds of other people in their lives. Among those people, everyone would have some people dislike. Usually, most of people that I dislike have several qualities in common. They tell lies too much, ignore others, and think too seriously.
To begin with, I dislike the people who tell lies too much without good reason. By telling lies, the person would lose trust, and without it, no relationship would be able to continue. For instance, my friend has broke up with her boyfriend, because he lied to her all the time. Because of his not honest attitude, she couldn't trust her boyfriend at all in the end.
Moreover, the people who ignore others are not accepted warmly from me, and even the whole society. It's true that sometimes, having strong and unshakable opinions is deriable by time. Nontheless, keeping the opinions wihout even persuading others usually makes the person even harder. For example, Lee Myeong Park, the president of Korea, has worked on a serious policy, which can be dangerous for whole society. Lot's of people were against this policy, but he almost ignored them. As a result, he lost his reputation at once, even though he used to be the most popular president in Korea history.
Finally, I don't want to have relationship with the people who are too serious. Sometimes, I meet people who think and speak too seriously. It's true that they say something useful or meaningful by the time. However, I hate spending my time with those people, because I feel so tired and stressed when I'm with them. In my case, I have a friend who has the exact quality that I've mentioned above. She views everything too seriously, and she loves to complain about everything around her. When I met her, she always judged my clothes or mistakes, and I was really tired about that.
In conclusion, I dislike people who lies a lot, don't listen to others, and who are too serious. Even if some people might argue that we should consider more about good points of other people, rather than bad points. Nontheless, there are several qualities that people dislike obviously, and we would have to try to fix those bad qualities ourselves. |