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Nowadays, we could often see the people who live together without getting married. They don't think they should get married before they live together. Even they have children, they still prefer not to married. But, I have a problem with their life style and belief. According to my belief, we should get married before live together. Marriage is a kind of announcement between the couple and our society. Through this ritual, finally people can realize their responsibility as a member of family. Also, they could be more serious about their life. Without getting married, people easily can break their outline of a family. That causes, family destruction and serious social problems. Also, this kind of attitude towards getting married also will affect their children's attitude. Children who raised by the parents who denied get married will learn the very same negative attitude towards the marriages. Without getting through the ritual, people can't get the idea of a family and the responsibility of being a family member. They will think it isn't big deal to break their relationships and their family. Children will follow their parents' belief about marriage. The speed of family destruction will get faster with reproducing the belief. Our world quickly changes, sometimes we hardly catch up the changing speed of our world. But, we don't have to be same with others. The only thing we should remember is the core value of our society. Than we will realize what we should keep or not. |