It is much better to use your own knowledge and experience to solve your problem then get advices from people that have overcome hardships and problems.
As people mutured, they face lots of problems. Some people prefer listening to other people's advices because they believe that it is much easy way to solve problems. However, in my point of view, in a long term perspective, overcoming our peoblems with our hand seems much desirable for two reasons ; obtaining own skills and adequecy.
To begin with, advices of other people do not fit on all of my situations. People have different backgrounds and different situation therefore, one's experiece and know-how is based on one's particular problem. If other people try to apply the people's advices on their problems by constraint, They will realize that they can not overcome their peoblems with others experieces. For instance, when I started toefl, I made all of my efforts on finding experience of other people who got good scores in toefl test, since I believe that I also could get high score in the test once use the people's advices. However, I knew later that good result in toefl of the people is based on their English background knowledge, and I can not do like the know-how in the advice as the people do because I could not use English at that time. With the experience I realized that other people's experience can not be utilized as I want.
On top of that, through failures and mistakes, people can obtain their own knloledge. People disapointed and frustrated when their effort in ignored or attempts are failed. However, The failures make people stronger and enable them to get their own know-how. For instance, when I was young, since my parents managed restaurant, I was familar with cookers and automatically found interesting in cooking. However, no one taught me how to make dishes and I struggled to make it with my own hands. Though I discarded ingredients because of my clumsy cooking, finally, I succed to make delicius delishes without others helps and learned my own knowledge of cooking.
As a result, I strongly believe that overcoming problems solely without other people's advices and helps because it not only often inadquate and ineffective, but also first-hand experiences allow people to have their own knowledges.
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