Parents should hide their negative emotions from their children.
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There is a famous proverb, saying "spare the rod, and spoil the child." This means that if parents do not punish or saying something is wrong to their child, they'd likely to have bad habits. Like this, I'm sure that parents should not hide their negative emotions from their child, because of it's possible educational effects and their becoming a role models. First of all, if parents express their bad feelings, especially about their kids, they would soon realize they did something wrong. Then, they will try to find out what it is, and realize their mistakes by themselves. By repeating the process of researching and finding out the problems, this can have potential educational effects on the kids. Personally, I had similar experience. One day, my mom was so upset about me and didn't talk to me, so when I asked for the reason, she didn't replied. I contemplated what I did, and realized I was rude to my grandparents. From then on, I never behave in bad way in front of the elders. Second, depend on how parents express their anger or sadness, they can be great role models. In other words, if parents show they were angry by talking with but not fighting with, their children would know that this is ideal method to resolve their problems. Needless to say, kids tend to follow their parents' behavior especially when they are young. Therefore, by being a good model, they can make their kids have positive personalities. In addition, by respecting their parents, children can have good relationship with parents. |