It is better to complain in person than in writing |
In people’s social activities, many people have trouble with other ones and sometimes they complain to their opponent. Although some people are accustomed to expose their complaints by facing in person due to clear and obvious aspects, I prefer to complain in writing since this method can continue relationships and make opponents thinking about their behaviors. First of all, the main advantage of writing form is that this way linger the relationship with opponent. Because of its hiding meanings, it is effective way. If someone complains in person, no sooner will someone complain than he and opponent will fight. For last but not least, giving time to opponent to mediate himself is generous and gentle way. Since most controversies are originated from sudden anger. Thinking about his or her attitude is very effective. This can be ideal solution for all argument. In conclusion, given the aspects of lingering relationships and time for considering, I strongly believe that it is better to express feelings in writing forms such as letter. Even though the proverb ‘Action speaks louder than words’ gets sympathy, it should be turned into ‘Action spoil worse than words’. |