Do you agree or disagree with the following statement? Most experiences in our lives that seemed difficult at the time become valuable lessons in the future. |
During our life, sometimes, people get in trouble, or face up with difficult situations such as a test that can determine rest of life and unwillingly do something because of somebody else’s pressure. In my case, I did military service for two years because of my country’s rule that all male who over twenty years old must do military service for two years. At that time, there was no free time, and food, house and clothes everything was terrible. This kind of hard situation make people tired, and gives a lot of stress that hard to deal with. However, at least, difficult times give two things that make people stronger and smarter. One is experience and another is self confidence. First, difficult times give experiences. If a person succeeds to overcome some hard situation, he/she gets experience about the situation, and after that he/she can easily handle the situation that was experienced before because he/she already know how to deal with the problem. For instance, in military world, usually a sergeant is better than private because a sergeant has more experiences than a private. Because the experience is important thing in order to overcome hard situation, it makes people stronger and smarter when they face up with hard problems. Second, difficult times give self confidence. If people successfully overcome some hard situation, then he/she gets self confidence, and the confidence makes people positive and brave against hard situations. In addition, the stronger self confidence let people set their limit of ability higher than before. For example, in my case, after I successfully finished military service, I got strong self confidence, and the confidence made me feel that I can do anything what I want. Finally, I could get better GPA in university than before I went to the Army. As a result, after people successfully goes through the hard time, they get better ability to deal with more complicating and difficult problems. In conclusion, difficult situations give experience and self confidence that makes people stronger and smarter. Therefore, even though people get in very difficult and complicating problems, for the future, people should think positively in order to get good influences from the trouble.
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