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It is said that whether the people will success or not depends on their parents’ method of education. Some of them even says strict regulations are essential for success. Personally, I believe that it is better not to set the rigid rules. I feel this way for two reasons, which I’ll explore in the following essay.
First of all, severe regulations can harm the kids’ own creativity. If parents force their kids to follow the strict rules, they will lose their freedom to imagine or experience what they want. My own experience is a compelling example of this. When I was seven years old, I made a huge mess playing with flour and water in the kitchen. My father was so mad about this and started to make rigid rules to control my playfulness. He was so scary that I could not help sticking to the regulations. Consequently, I become an adult who is well-regulated, but I feel like my creativity is below the average. As a person working in an advertisement company, lack of creativity is deadly to my job. Last week, there was a special task in my company which required creative mind. I really worked hard to get a good result but it was nearly impossible to do so. Were my parents not that much strict on obeying the rules, my creativity would be much better.
Secondly, parents need to respect the kids’ opinion. If parents set rigid rules without considering kids, the relationship between parents and kids will be demolished. For example, a friend of mine was raised by severe parents who placed strong emphasis on discipline. They disregarded her opinion and strictly educated her as they wanted their child to grow up successfully. Unfortunately, the relationship between my friend and her parents was broken in doing so. She sever all the contacts with her parents when getting into college. They could not repair their relations so far as my friend was deeply disappointed with her parents’ so-called discipline. As a result, strict rules guaranteed neither success, nor the relationship between parents and their daughter.
In conclusion, I strongly believe that requiring the children to obey the rigid regulations established by parents is not beneficial to their success. This is because strict rules can destroy the kids’ creativity, and because they are fatal to relationship between parents and children.
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