Most people prefer having others make a decision for themselves rather than deciding themselves. |
Sometimes, people undergo the panic in their life. People have made a decision to do work and study. Even when they eat or sleep, people think and choose what they do. Some people think that it would be better for others to make a decision instead of themselves, because they do not want to be confused among choices they have. However, I disagree with the statement that most people prefer having others make a decision for themselves to deciding themselves. This is because people know what they really want than others and every experience helps people to be stronger in their life. To begin with, people understand themselves much more than others. It is obvious that people have different personalities and dreams that they want to be in the future. If others choose what I do in the future and I have to be action as their choice, it does not take long to regret getting much more stresses. Let’s imagine when you are getting a job after graduation. You might be confused because you do not have careers and abundant experiences of your work. So, you are supposed to turn to someone and listen to their saying. If other chose a company instead of you and you become the worker of the company fortunately, you can work but you do not have a lot of passion of your work. Also, others can not recognize about everything of you so they might not take care of you after you enter the company. So, it makes matters again to you. You will consider much more about you. In comparison, if you chose the job by yourself overcoming a lot of concerns, you would be more reasonable of your work. In this sense, the person who solves one’s problem is only you. In addition, every experience is beneficial for people. There is old saying; failing is the mother of success. This means that even bad experience help people to be wiser because people learn the lesson from the experience. Thus, although people might fail due to their decision, it would make people to be stronger in their life. Let me take my experience for an example. When was in university, I participated in several fashion contests and I experienced to fail in the contests. However, I do not regret to take part in the contest. Although I could not get a prize, I could understand what my mistake was and I was improving my skill thanks to my work for contests. Based on these failing work, my new works were attracted people in the graduation exhibit. Not only professors were proud of me, also the people who work at school paper praise me reporting my works and me. The better thing is that the works that I got good comments helped me to get a good job. So, I firmly believe that others can not offer these helpful experiences to you so people have to do anything as their thought. |
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