Financial Loans between friends can harm or damage the friendship |
Ocassionally, by unavoidable reasons such as steep medical treatment costs, sudden financial crisis, and disasters, people encounter the situation that require money more than they could afford. In this case, many people often borrow money from their close friend. But I believe that financial loans between friends should be avoided as possible as it is, because it is possible that one lose both his money and friend. Above all, monetary relation between friends make negative influences on their friendship by generating psychological tensions. That is, one who borrow money from his friend may feel like that he should return debts to his friend within the day he promised, which is a heavy mental burden, and one who give the loan to his friend is not comfortable because of possibility that he can not be paid back his money. In this way, the pure friendship change into the uncomfortable relationship. Further more, if one can not or do not pay back the money he borrowed from his friend, this give critical damages to their friendship. The trust between friends will be broken, making their friendship not same as before. In my own experience, when I was sophomore in universiy, my friend needed money because of his stock investment. So I loaned him 20 hundreds dollors but I can't get my money back. Eventually, I lost my close friend as well as 20 hundreds dollors. To summarize, I think that finacial loan between friends is not beneficial because they could harm friendships and in the worse case, they can even break down the precious relationship we have developed for long time.
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