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There is an ongoing debate on whether childhood is the most crucial period in one's life or not. Some people might say that it is partially true but every stage of a person's life is also important. In opposition to this, I strongly agree with the idea that having a good childhood is the most important in one's live. The reasoning behind this is that people can establish positive self-mage, form vital characters, and learn basic habits. To begin with, childhood is time when people establish positive self-image. When they are loved and cared during that time, it is easy for them to live their lives with confidence. However, if these emotions such as loving and caring were not fully supported by children's surrounding, it would be very difficult to overcome the deficiency. For example, most mental depression patients do not have pleasant memory during their childhood. Since positive self image are the main key for them to overcome their ailments, their lack of pleasant emotions hinder them from enduring hardships. In this sense, establishing positive self image should be made during that time. Moreover, children's personality develope during childhood. As children are growing, they begin to learn every aspect of daily lives from their parent. In those times, parent can be their role model and affect the formation of their character. Therefore, healthy surrounding for children is inevitable. To illustrate, when my father was young, he went through the Korean War. Since he was a child, the influence of the horrible war was significantly huge. Many time, he suffered from the basic needs and also losing his brother. These unstable situations had lasted three years and gave him a negative impact in shaping his personality. Until now, he has difficulty in trusting people and making friends. In this regard, negative influence on children are harmful for developing good personality. Finally, children learn basic habits during childhood. Once children form habits, it is really difficult to change. Therefore, establishing good habits is significantly important. For instance, My mother was a early-bird. Since she was diligent and hardworking woman, getting up early was very important in my house. In the morning, she always asked us to read books before having breakfast for an hour. This good habit stays until now and It truly helps me to nourish my mind constantly. Likewise, forming good habit during childhood is invaluable. To sum up, I firmly argue that childhood is the most important period for people's healthy lives. This is because they can establish positive self image, develop intrinsic character, and learn basic habits. If people have more focus on childhood, our children will be raised in healthy way. |